Toddlers: Synchronizing Curiosity and Balance
 

 

Webster’s dictionary defines a toddler as someone who walks unsteadily with short steps. Mrs. Kelley Hutchison, Director of Junior Junction Day School, believes this limited definition does not convey the explosion of personality and mobility that is happening in the child of 18 to 36 months.

 

Toddlers are extremely active young people.  Their world is all about tasting, touching, pushing, pulling, observing, bouncing, rocking, balancing, and, yes, toddling.  It is a delightful challenge to provide care for and to teach a child whose total focus is mastering their body.  Teachers that work in a toddler environment must truly adore this age and have an understanding of just what a “planned curriculum” really looks like in a wobblers’ classroom.  The toddler teacher must be constant, consistent, planned, structured, and well organized, so that they can enjoy supporting and protecting their very young students.

 

In the joyous chaos of “herding” toddlers, JJ makes sure that the children are stimulated and invited to explore, learn, and develop.  We do this not only because we believe that the children are keen learners, but also because we believe that the more we can aid with their development, the more they will thrive and become confident, accomplished young children.

 

Child psychologists and scientists agree that by the time a child is age three, the foundations have been set for the many ways they will learn and live as older children and adults.

 

 

The Toddler Classroom:  A magical setting for growth and exploration


Q:  What is your ratio of caregivers to toddlers?

Mrs. Hutchison:  We have one teacher for every seven toddlers, with a maximum group size of fourteen with two instructors.

 

Q:  What will the toddler classroom look like? 

Mrs. H.:  I think the toddler room is magical because it’s designed totally for environmental learning.  You see, at this stage, children learn by experience in a very primitive fashion.  What they can repeatedly touch, grab, taste, hit, and feel is what they know.  That’s why the classroom has experiential stations full of brightly colored — learning- and age-appropriate — furniture and toys.  In one area we offer toys that a toddler can squeeze or pound.  Another area is stacked with intriguing foam blocks for adventuresome climbing or maybe just pulling themselves up and holding on.  The climbing and toy areas are where children can be observed but often allowed to be independent.  The art station is set up for paint exploration.  Here the teacher would be closely involved while the child experimented with paint, over and over! 

We also have wall mirrors placed at toddler height so that children can see themselves and others.  They never tire of looking at themselves.  An outside dedicated play area is also available very close to their classroom.  Our toddlers can experience outdoor fun in total safety.  Of course, the room is also equipped with size-appropriate toilets and hand- washing sinks.  It’s very fun for the toddler to have fixtures just their size and height.  And they are really handy for the children in the toilet training stage.

 

 

The Curriculum:  Fun and educational routines


Q:  What is the curriculum for a toddler?

Mrs. H.:  Although I have heard of genius toddlers who are reading and talking in complete sentences, we focus our curriculum for the typical child who is learning through their daily routine.  Our children have been taken from the home environment and put in a professional group setting, so our first task is to recreate all the best features of being at home.  They need predictable, consistent schedules that they can count on and learn to expect.  In that way, they can develop confidence and feel secure to experiment. 

 

I spoke earlier of environmental learning through a variety of play stations.  Now let’s take that idea and expand it into other activities like eating, socializing, and developing sensory awareness, language skills, and physical coordination.  We organize a toddler’s day so that the normal activities happen on a recognizable schedule and are consciously planned and enhanced for optimal learning.

 

Q:  How do you make eating educational?  And what skills does it develop?

Mrs. H.:  Eating hones small motor skills.  When you see a toddler with corn all over her face, you might see a child who needs to be washed up.  A toddler teacher will see an adorable little person who is learning to manage a spoon, finding her mouth, and finding out if she likes the feel of food on her face!  After eating, they offer us the opportunity of assisting them with the clean up (and believe me, this is a hoot)!

 

Q:  You said you have a consistent schedule.  What would that look like?  And why is it important to a toddler?

Mrs. H.:  Let’s look at the Full Day program for an example.  Teachers have the flexibility to create different schedules, but this is a sample of a typical schedule.  Routine breeds security in the heart of a child.  In any of our classrooms you will find a basic daily routine followed, whether it is in the Full Day or Half Day programs.

6:00 – 8:30 a.m.  Typical Student Arrivals

(Breakfast is served until about 8:00 a.m.)  Arrival at school can be a challenging transition for most children, so there will be pleasing soft music to help soothe the changeover.  The teacher becomes familiar with each child’s transition behavior and will know whether the child will want to be held for a while, play in an exploration area, or lie down for quiet time.  The parent-to-teacher changeover can at times be more difficult for the parent — so we want to be sensitive to them, too.  

 

8:30 – 9:00 a.m.  Toileting and Breakfast Cleanup

 

9:00 – 11:00/11:30 a.m.  Curriculum Activities Begin

Circle Time begins the day’s scheduled activities.  Circle Time includes, but, of course, is not limited to, singing, finger play, storytelling, reading, signing, and music.

Toddlers have short attention spans and need to move in order to refocus.  There will be lots of movement involved in any given activity.  Toddler dancing is a must!  We’re not talking Broadway musicals here, but rather lots of bouncing and hopping.  Todds are delighted by the opportunity to learn simple finger play.  “Patty Cake” and  “Itsy Bitsy Spider” are used all day long.  As the teachers sing and tell stories, they use simple sign language so that the children mimic the signed words just as they mimic the singing or rhythm words.  This not only develops language skills, it also develops a fun attitude toward learning and creates the foundation for concentration skills.  On a side note, signing while learning to talk can increase a child’s future ability to learn at multiple levels.  There are many studies about brain development and sign language available on the Internet for parents who want to know more about this exciting subject.  A good place to start is www.zerotothree.org

10:00 a.m.  Toilet Time

            In the Full Day program, toilet time is a must!  Many children at this age are learning their independent toileting skills, and we are here to help them master this very important social skill.  So we place Toilet Time in the schedule!

 

10:15 a.m.  Snacks

All that energy needs nourishment.  Tasty, healthy snacks are prepared in our kitchen and are delivered to the classroom.

 

10:30 – 11:30 a.m.  Messy Art

Messy art incorporates activities like finger painting.  With a group of seven to fourteen toddlers, the teachers assist each other during activity time by keeping watchful eyes on small groups of students in independent play areas while assisting the developing Picassos at the finger-painting easel.

It is important to point out here that the time in the environmental play stations is very important to toddler development.  At this age, a child is not only learning to manipulate objects, they are also learning to socialize with other children.  The teachers attentively monitor their activities.  In this social classroom setting, Todds will explore their environment and each other.  An innocent game of friendly thumping on the leg of another classmate can quickly become a safety issue between two children.  The toddler teacher is quick to redirect children so that harmony can prevail and children can feel safe.  Todd teachers are masters of the early body language of the wobbler!  Proper, consistent intervention when children are learning to be together is the basis of peer group entry skills and social development.

11:30 a.m.  Toileting and Washing for Lunch

            Washing hands is an important life skill, and we do lots of it!

 

12:00 p.m.  Lunchtime

Lunch is a fun time, and toddlers are allowed — within boundaries — to experiment with their eating skills.  Meals are served in the classroom in a traditional family group setting.  The children are served meals at little tables and chairs.  JJ meals are prepared in our school kitchen; they are well balanced, tasty, and nutritious.

 

12:30 p.m. – 3-ish  Naptime Prep and Sleeping

Toddlers need lots of time to replenish their bodies.  Naptime is a must for these little ones.

 

3:00 – 3:30 p.m.  Toilet Time — yes, again!

You are always welcome to thank your Todds teacher for assisting you in empowering your child with this very important social skill.  J

 

3:30 p.m.  Afternoon Snack

 

3:30 p.m.  Outside Fun

Fresh air is important to young children, and, weather permitting, children go outside to play and experience nature.  Preparing to go outside can be a learning experience in itself!  Teaching children to put on jackets, boots, mittens, and hats can be quite a task.  Once accomplished, however, being outside with fresh air, birds, grass, trees, rain, and sunshine replenishes both the children and teachers.  The outdoors offers additional opportunities for repetitive motor activities like digging, pouring, scooping, running, and jumping.

 

4:00 – 7:00 p.m.  Typical Student Departures 

When parents are expected, it’s good to do something really fun, so this is often another time for group singing, finger play, storytelling, and signing.

 

 

 

Loving Care:  Building relationships with caregivers and other toddlers


Q:  I understand that you call the caregivers “teachers."  Doesn’t that make them more removed from the children?

Mrs. H.:  Quite the contrary, all good teachers have a caring and tender heart for their young students.  Teachers of young children should show and verbalize appropriate affection.  They should also use holding and hugging to build confidence and ultimately independence.  Remember how you felt when your parent held you on their lap and read a story?  It made you feel secure.  By the time they are in grade school, children with confidence do not need touch from their teachers.

A good care-giving routine facilitates strong bonds between the teachers and the toddlers.  If the same person is feeding them, encouraging their toilet training, cheering on their block climbing, and singing and dancing with them, the toddler feels loved and safe.  That is the feeling we are knocking ourselves out for, because a child who feels loved and safe will be more daring and exploratory and will build self-confidence and succeed.

 

Q:  Can you recognize personality differences in toddlers? 

Mrs. H.:  Oh, yes!  The whole personality is budding.  Todd teachers very quickly learn whether the child is easygoing and often happy, or a little anxious and worried, or a future world leader who wants to try everything right now!

Understanding the different personalities is crucial because the teacher uses this knowledge to lead the children into understanding each other.  Toddlers are very egocentric people, and learning that fellow classmates are both alike and different is a huge development in their psyches.  Really, it’s the basis of being able to respect differences as adults.

 

 

 

Recognizing milestones:  The developmental stages of toddlers


Q:  You have discussed all the motor, language, and cognitive skills that toddlers are developing.  What are the milestones that parents should look for?   

Mrs. H.:  Wow, that is a big question!  Yes, there are developmental milestones, and all children need to accomplish them.  But they can be unpredictable in the order they develop.  In general, toddlers 18 – 36 months will usually accomplish the following list.  But please keep in mind that normal, healthy children develop at their own pace, and our job is to stimulate and entice them, and then to stand back and cheer them on.

  • Physical Milestones: 

    • Large muscle:  Runs, walks backward, climbs up and down stairs, throws and catches big balls

    • Small muscle:  Tears, scribbles with a crayon
       

  • Social/Emotional Milestones:

    • Uses pretend play as a way of initiating friendships; uses dolls or play animals to overcome fears; enjoys playing running or chasing games with other children
       

  • Language Milestones:

    • Develops single word vocabulary that can rapidly grow to 500+ words; points to familiar pictures or symbols; mimics animal sounds; follows one-step commands; talks in full but short sentences
       

  • Cognitive Milestones:

    • Sorts objects; fits objects together; completes simple puzzles; pretends

 

Parents:  The power of communication


 

Q:  How will parents know what their toddlers are accomplishing?   

Mrs. H.:  Communicating with parents is a crucial part of the JJ philosophy.  If the parent doesn’t know what is happening, they will not know what to look for, ask for, or praise.  We keep daily record sheets of the children’s accomplishments, and the parents receive a copy each day.  We also publish a monthly newsletter telling the parents what signs, songs, and activities we are focusing on that month.  In addition, teachers have email so parents can contact them whenever they have questions or information.  We also have phones in each classroom — so please call anytime.

We do request that parents not use the drop-off and pick-up times to do problem solving with the teacher.  Children are most in need of attention when their parents are coming and going, and teachers must be available to assist the children at that time.  We prefer to schedule a parent-teacher conference or phone conference to communicate outside the ears of the young ones.

 

Q:  Are parents allowed to spend time or volunteer in the classroom?

Mrs. H.:  Absolutely.  In fact, we encourage parents to spend a few hours in the classroom whenever their schedules will allow.  They are, of course, more than welcome to come often.

 

Q:  Some parents like to dress their children nicely for toddler class.  Will the teachers make sure that their good clothes don’t get dirty? 

Mrs. H.:  I’m so glad you asked this question.  I make this same request of all our parents.  Please dress your toddlers in clothing they can play in and get messy!  This is a hands-on learning environment, and we practice joyful experiential learning.  That means we do messy art, pick up handfuls of dirt and smell them, and do summersaults in the grass.  There are times and places to learn to keep clean, but toddler class is the time and place to experiment and feel brave.  It’s not the place to be afraid of soiling clothing. 

 

Q:  Do you have facilities for developmentally disabled children? 

Mrs. H.:  Yes.  We have exceeded the ADA standards in our classrooms & school wide. We have disability access to our playfield as well!

 

Q:  Do you accept children into the school who haven’t been vaccinated?

Mrs. H.:  Yes.  In the state of Washington, parents have the choice to vaccinate or not.  However, the parents who choose not to vaccinate their children must sign an immunization exemption statement.  This is a Washington State Department of Social and Health Services requirement for a child enrolled in a state licensed facility.  Also, if there are local outbreaks of diseases that would be prevented by vaccination, the child may be required to stay home until the outbreak is over.

 

Q:  It is often very hard for parents to leave their little one, whether it’s for a Full Day or Half Day program.  What advice do you have for them?

Mrs. H.:  Although we all have days when we are happy to turn our children over to others, most of us have children because we want them.  In addition, we are emotionally attached to them, and it is natural to feel a real physical distress about leaving them.  First, let me state very clearly that your child is safe with us.  Our environment is nurturing and trustworthy.  All our teachers and I truly have compassionate hearts for children and take joy in hosting their growth and learning.

However, there are some techniques that will help with separation issues.  Plan a routine that will support you and your child.  Talk with your toddler every morning about how fun school is and what they will be learning that day.  Ask them to remember something special to share with you when you pick them up.  Take pride in bringing them to a classroom that will protect and inspire them, and be proud of yourself for doing the best job you do — being a parent!

 

A Few Closing Words


I am a parent.  I have four children (all adults now) and I can say with pride that my husband and I practiced so much of what is here in print.  Of course, I am biased and proudly say they have all grown to be strong, self-sufficient adults, willing to take on social challenges and manage their own lives.  This is why I really want to encourage you to enjoy your toddler now.  It sounds cliché, but you will never experience the tender years again.  Keep your cameras and tape recorders handy — capture your child’s magic as it happens. 

 

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